1 Then Joseph could not control himself before all those who stood by him. He cried, “Make everyone go out from me.” So no one stayed with him when Joseph made himself known to his brothers. 2 And he wept aloud, so that the Egyptians heard it, and the household of Pharaoh heard it. 3 And Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still alive?” But his brothers could not answer him, for they were dismayed at his presence.
4 So Joseph said to his brothers, “Come near to me, please.” And they came near. And he said, “I am your brother, Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. 5 And now do not be distressed or angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me before you to preserve life. 6 For the famine has been in the land these two years, and there are yet five years in which there will be neither plowing nor harvest. 7 And God sent me before you to preserve for you a remnant on earth, and to keep alive for you many survivors. 8 So it was not you who sent me here, but God. He has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house and ruler over all the land of Egypt. 9 Hurry and go up to my father and say to him, ‘Thus says your son Joseph, God has made me lord of all Egypt. Come down to me; do not tarry. 10 You shall dwell in the land of Goshen, and you shall be near me, you and your children and your children’s children, and your flocks, your herds, and all that you have. 11 There I will provide for you, for there are yet five years of famine to come, so that you and your household, and all that you have, do not come to poverty.’ 12 And now your eyes see, and the eyes of my brother Benjamin see, that it is my mouth that speaks to you. 13 You must tell my father of all my honor in Egypt, and of all that you have seen. Hurry and bring my father down here.” 14 Then he fell upon his brother Benjamin’s neck and wept, and Benjamin wept upon his neck. 15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept upon them. After that his brothers talked with him.
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STOP! Think a little 🤔 What is God saying to you?
- What is the writer saying?
- How do I apply this to my life?
Joseph couldn’t control himself any longer. Judah’s confession and readiness to sacrifice himself for Benjamin revealed the brothers’ repentance. Joseph sent everyone out of the room so he could be alone with his brothers and let them know who he really was. He offered them complete forgiveness by telling them that they don’t need to be distressed or angry with themselves because they sold him into slavery because God sent him ahead of them to preserve their lives. He explained that the famine that had lasted two years would last another five. Repeatedly he pointed to God being the one who orchestrated events. God had sent him ahead. God had made him ruler over the land of Egypt. God had sent him to preserve life.
Then Joseph told his brothers to go back and fetch his entire family. They were all to move to Egypt so that they could survive the famine and not come to poverty. Then Joseph embraced Benjamin and wept with him. Then he did the same with all his brothers. Then they talked together. What a beautiful picture of complete reconciliation.
“It was not you who sent me here, but God.” This sentence sums up the story of Joseph. God, in His sovereignty, overrules human choices and actions, whether good or evil, to achieve His purpose. God’s sovereign use of human action doesn’t absolve them of the responsibility of their actions. It also doesn’t mean that those things that happened are in themselves always good. God uses all things for our good (Rom 8:28). He doesn’t make them good. He doesn’t change them to good. God allows the bad to happen but His plan and the results he works are always good.